Title: How to know if she's NOT into you

Hello,

The last thing we want is to spend a lot of time
or put a ton of effort into a date that isn't going
to go anywhere.  After all, time is precious and we're
on the journey to finding the perfect match.

So the last thing we want is to miss out on finding
her because we're wasting time on the wrong women, right?

Here's how to tell if a date is just not into you
before spending hours suffering through an awkward
or uncomfortable evening:

* Cancels Plans
If you're finding that she seems to constantly
reschedule or she doesn't seem that interested 
in the places you suggest, chances are she's on the
fence for a reason.  

While it doesn't mean she isn't going to give you a
chance, it does mean that you  might find yourself
putting a lot of effort into simply getting to know
her if she's reluctant to commit to a single date.  

* She Uses The Word "Friend"
Rather obvious one, right?  No guy wants to end up
in the dreaded friend zone so if she uses the word
friend during your initial date, chances are she 
doesn't see you as a potential love match. 

That doesn't mean she doesn't like you, just be
prepared for a let down if you decide to pursue it
as anything more than a potential buddy to hang out
with.

* She Avoids Physical Contact
If you find her dodging your physical advances, it's
a pretty clear sign that she is either not feeling 
your vibe or she thinks you're being too aggressive.

While it might just be a matter of you invading her
personal space without meaning to, you'll want to 
reassess whether it's a matter of her not feeling
you or if she just needs more time.

* Stiff Body Language
If she doesn't look relaxed and it appears that
she's really struggling to engage you in conversation
it could be 2 different things. Either she's just
waiting for the date to be over or she's working
through nervousness.  You'll want to do your best
to figure out which is it before the night goes on.

Those are just a few ways you'll be able to get
a better sense whether she's attracted to you or not.

What other ways can you think of?  What have you
experienced personally from past dates that has
taught you what to look out for?

Until tomorrow, 

{YOUR NAME HERE}
